Asides from making us all believe that rich millionaire boyfriends are all over town waiting for the perfect woman to come along, one thing the Fifty Shades movie also did was introduce BDSM fully into pop culture.
BDSM is an acronym for the sex fetish that involves Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. BDSM covers an entire spectrum of sexual activities that people practice, and a person’s interests can vary widely on the spectrum or even overlap.
However, despite the increased popularity of BDSM as a fetish, many people still view it as an extreme act of sexual pleasure. In fact, there was a time when people who engaged in BDSM were considered to have a mental disorder.
Hence, bringing up BDSM with people they are just starting to see is a problem for many. Cam girls fill this gap by providing BDSM live shows for people with this fetish.
So if you are into BDSM and find it challenging to find someone to explore this part of your sexuality with you, try doing through a live girl sex cam.
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How To Practice BDSM With A Cam Girl
The BDSM spectrum is quite broad. Hence, there are different types of activities that fall within the spectrum.
Activities such as spanking, handcuffing, hair pulling, blindfolding, and role-playing are part of the BDSM spectrum.
Because BDSM is extremely physical, many people find it difficult to practice it with a cam girl. This guide will provide tips to help you explore your kinky side virtually.
Dominance and Submission With A Cam Girl
Introducing powerplay into the bedroom makes sex more interesting for many people. In the dominant/submissive dynamic, one partner called the dom holds power during a sexual encounter and directs the submissive during the sexual encounter.
The role taken on by either of the partners is not necessarily reflective of the actual dynamics of the relationship.
Both the dom and the sub get sexual satisfaction from their roles.
To play dom/sub with a cam girl might be a bit challenging. Asserting dominance over the webcam involves a lot of visual and audio adjustments to the role. If you want to play the dom with your cam girl, you should look the part.
Bring all your Alpha male swag into the room. Take a firm stance and make sure you allow her to take the lead if you are the sub.
Use her terms to address her. If she says she is a queen, then she is a queen.
Bondage and Discipline With A Cam Girl
Bondage and female domination are other aspects of BDSM that can be explored with a cam girl. Bondage involves restraining a sub and sometimes whipping them into total submission as you humiliate them verbally or even financially, as the case may be.
In real life, the dom would always use cuffs, ropes, or other restraining items to keep their sub in place. But over webcam, it would have to be more of self-bondage.
The trick is to appear as submissive as possible. You should, however, try as much as possible to pay attention to your safety as you don’t want to be lying on the floor of your room in cuffs after an orgasm, unable to move.
If financial domination is your kink, you can tip your cam girl whenever she issues you a command and watch her humiliate you.
Sadism and Masochism With A Cam Girl
The hallmark of this category of BDSM is pain, the infliction of pain, and the ability to withstand pain. Sexual sadism can involve the sadist whipping, pinching, spanking, or slapping the masochists till they both achieve sexual pleasure or until the safeword is used.
Since it is physically impossible to inflict pain with a cam girl, you can introduce a dom/sub dynamic such that the roles overlap. The key to enjoying your BDSM encounter with a cam girl is to take your role seriously.
It is very important to state that consent is key in any interaction with a cam girl, but it is even more important when exploring BDSM.
The fact that it is happening virtually does not mean that your sub is not feeling overwhelmed or in extreme self-inflicted pain.
Before you both delve into any roles, make sure you agree on what the boundaries are and what the safeword would be.
